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Ian Kerner

Ian Kerner is a freelancer for The Arrow newsletter.

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., LMFT, is a licensed psychotherapist and sexuality counselor specializing in sex therapy, and the New York Times best-selling author of “She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman.”

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